CERTIFIED HIGH-PERFORMANCE COACH
AUTHOR 
SPEAKER
DOG MOM
SPORT LOVER...

I did everything they said would work. Worked harder. Read the books. Followed the “right” advice.
And yet... nothing truly changed. Two steps forward, five steps back.

I knew I was capable, but I hesitated. I had proof, but I doubted. I trained and practiced—only to choke when it mattered most.
 

And then? Everything changed. One letter. Five minutes. My life, forever different.
 

If only my mom had seen herself through my eyes—unconditionally loving, kind, loyal, thoughtful. But she didn’t. She never realized the profound impact she had on my life. And it broke my heart.  She inspired me every single day to be better. And even now, she still does. But she never saw the truth about herself. She never saw what we all saw. That loss shattered something in me—but it also woke something up.
 

It forced me to see how much we lose in life because of invisible forces shaping us—the inaccurate perceptions we mistake for truth and the beliefs we never challenge. Like feeling I didn’t measure up for no logical reason. Like not speaking up and letting others take credit. Like knowing I was capable, yet doubting I’d deliver. Like training, practicing, and still falling apart under pressure.
 

For years, I felt these struggles but never questioned them. I chalked them up to “just the way I am” and kept moving forward—never realizing I was stuck in a loop. Losing my mom changed that. I saw what she lost—how much of her life was shaped by false narratives she never questioned. And I needed to know why. Why do we all operate this way, unaware that nothing truly changes? 
 

So I did what I’ve always done when I need answers—I immersed myself in learning. Not casually. Not as a hobby. I became obsessed. And this was over 20 years ago—before the personal development industry existed as we know it today. Limited internet services, no ChatGPT, Amazon barely on the map—no way to order dozens of books overnight. But none of that stopped me. I spent years studying human behavior, neuroscience, and psychology—paying relentless attention to every detail, every pattern, every question I couldn’t yet answer.
 

Until I could. Until I finally connected the dots—not just that patterns exist, but that they leave clues. And those clues lead to a single domino—the hidden trigger that, once tipped, sets off an entire cascade of outdated, inaccurate beliefs shaping our lives in ways we don’t even realize. It was the domino that kept my mother from seeing the incredible woman she was. Just like me—I wasn’t just dealing with random struggles. I was experiencing the inevitable result of that first domino tipping over.
 

And once I understood this, I became obsessed with finding these dominos—tracking them to the source, outpacing them, outsmarting them. Because when you do, they no longer control your life. And what fueled my passion even more? Discovering that this doesn’t have to take years.
 

The cycles that hold people back—the doubts, the fears, the invisible patterns keeping them stuck—can be broken fast if you know what to look for.
 

Losing my mom was the catalyst for my lifelong obsession—to become world-class at tracking these patterns, finding the first domino, and outpacing it so it no longer has the upper hand in your life. And now I’ve developed an uncanny ability to see what others can’t—to find the patterns, pinpoint exactly which domino is running the show, and develop a plan to outpace the domino. 

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Mastering The Domino Effect changes lives faster than most people believe. It’s like having insider knowledge of your own brain—but instead of working against you, it finally starts working for you. And this is what fires me up every day. 

 

But my biggest regret? That I didn’t know this when it mattered most. That I never got to help my mom find her domino. If I had, she would have seen what
we saw. She would have known how special she was, and if she'd been able to read the letters and the messages and hear the stories her friends shared with us after she was gone, she would not have been surprised; she would have known this about herself. And I wonder how her life, like each of ours, would be different if we knew these things. 
 

I owe my entire career to her. Because I know who she was, and if she were here, she’d want me to help as many people as possible break free from their hidden dominos—so they don’t waste years fighting battles they don’t even realize exist.

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So this passion? This obsession with finding and outpacing the dominos in our lives? It’s always inspired by her. And that’s why I refuse to stop. ​

We all deserve to know who the best of us is so we can live a life of impact, not regret.